The logical breakdown - Female Muslim

As a man of logic, sound logic, factual rational logic, I like to ask questions & say things that expose how illogical other people's ideas or beliefs are simply to replay back to them and see if they get it.

I came across a Muslim girl on twitter...

She was shown a picture by another twitter user of females with acid thrown in their face referring to what Islam causes. Her response was interesting. She said...

''It's the family mentality & NOT what the religion teaches us, you fool''

Now for those of us theologically literate we know that actually it is what Islam teaches but that's irrelevant. She(possibly trying to compensate) suggests it's the family mentality & essentially not Islam.

So here she is saying to ignore family mentality's/culture & only focus on what Islam teaches.

So here is where I said..well Islam teaches a man can beat his wife...Referring to ...

Here it clearly says women should be obedient to their husbands and if they are not eventually you can strike/beat them. 

^ Going by her logic she has to now accept that Islam teaches Muslims men can beat their wives & hence if a husband beats his wife that is Islam. That is what Islam teaches. That is a direct consequence of Islam. However here was her response...

She says yes men can beat their wives BUT only if it wont hurt them(something not actually said at all) and just a soft tap for a 'reminder' 

A reminder to be obedient I presume?

Anyway to break down her logic. She has decided to add something not in the text to make the text seem less horrible & more reasonable. Which is ''IF IT WONT HURT THEM''

However in doing that she negated to actually comprehend what she was suggesting.

Men can beat their wives softly if they're not obedient to remind them to be obedient...

^ That is her logic. And that's her trying to make it seem good.

So in Islam a husband is like a parent & a wife is like a child. The child must obey their parents & the wife must obey their husband?  The child gets spanked if they do something bad & the wife gets beaten(softly supposedly) if they are not obedient...

Isn't that a very odd backward unfair oppressive relationship? Well yes...quite clearly.

Which is very strange when you consider the tweet which led me to reply to her originally..

< full tweet

She says women are on a HIGHER level in Islam & Islam never oppresses them...

So is a child on a higher level to it's parents?  Certainly the parents job is to protect their child. But really who is on a higher level the child or the child's parents?

Who is in charge?
Who gets more respect?
Who makes the rules?
Who guides the other?
Who makes the decisions?
Does a child have true freedom? No....
                                           

A child is under the control/guidance of their parents.

And in Islam as this woman testifies the wife is under the control/guidance of her husband.

Therefore logically speaking her original tweet is laughable. Islam clearly oppresses women as it treats them like children not adults.

She claimed Islam puts women HIGHER than men.
Yet wives should be obedient to their husbands...
Daughters obedient to their father/parents....
So at what point are women higher than men?

Clearly the person obedient is lower.
Muslims themselves are obedient to 'Allah' Because 'Allah' is above them.
Likewise in school the children are below the teacher hence they follow what the teacher says.
Likewise in employment the employee is below the boss & does what the boss says.
And in Islam the wife is obedient to her husband and does what he says..
So men are higher(by her own logic) if we follow what Islam says(following her claim on what Islam says)

So why is she lying to herself?  Well - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance